When things don’t seem to go your way, you might just have to let go of this to get something even better.
Someone once told me “舍得，舍得。有舍才有得。”
Good things are worth waiting, not all good things comes at a tender age, like I did to you!
Jiayou my friend, you definitely deserves something better.
When i think pple 小心眼, maybe i’m the 小心眼!
to be excited! Coz it still seems pretty far!
Recently, had a conversation with my colleagues which included a typical pampered young temp.
She said “my mother’s very lazy, she always just leaves e dishes in e sink and only washes it e next day”
I don’t know abt your thoughts but the rest and I replied without hesitant for her to do e dishes then.
When e young girl complains of her mum, if she had stopped to think of her role as her mum’s daughter, (hopefully) she would realise, she herself isn’t doing her role as a daughter well enough too. Maybe she might realise she can do her part by just doing e dishes while her mum cooks. Irony is how she say, her boyfriend should do e dishes coz she’d cook. Zzz.
Before we complain that someone around us fails to perform their rightful roles, would be good for us to stop to think if we’ve done ours well enough to complain of others. Be it with your parents, siblings, friends. Just a second and think, “am I doing somewhat that’s expected of my roles?”
really up to the task…..
Whilst comparison with others can motivate us to push ous limits, but too much of it will increase discontentment. And that’s when we are at risk of being unhappy with our lives, bcoz “wahh they so fortunate so good life leh”. If we always try to outdo others, we’d live the rest of our lives miserably bcoz there WILL (confirm chop guarantee) be someone better than us.
If we’re fine by ourselves, why make ourselves miserable and keep trying to compare to others? Do we really need to outdo someone in order to feel better? Everything has a pros and cons, pple who have the luxury of time, probably have lower monetary power, vice versa.
It all boils down to doing things you feel good and right abt, not bcoz of what you presume others would think. If you do not have contentment, the insatiable appetite will eat you up one fine day, or worse, pple around you. Rather than blaming on all external factors, or whatsoever fate, might as well do something to improve your state, be it changing your mindset, working harder etc.
Pple around you who cares, gets tired eventually when their efforts in improving the negative state don’t work. It’s like failing a module for umpteen times, we’d wanna give up after few tries don’t we? What makes you think when pple tries to help for XX times, they still can go on for another XX times. Expecting to always be getting good words and consolations from pple around is sucking the energy out of the others.
Hai, looking at cases around, i know it’s really not easy to change one’s mindset. What else can i do to help. Also can’t possibly watch them “die” right.
not always clear, but i guess, would be able to see more.
seeing breakups like this happening, i’d just say, before you point finger at the other party for doing/ not doing anything. would be good to reflect on yourself and see if there’s anything you should not have done/ done too… dont be too quick to point finger, let’s do some reflection too… i’m sure there’re lessons we can learn abt ourselves as well.
backside and thighs aching BAD. feels like i’m spasmodic when i walk. good workout, except i really have no idea how i’ve survive that 5km run on saturday.
got news abt the various classes around Sg, and it happens there’s one at Tampines! which is reallllly near my place.
Suppose to head down with my colleague today, but she couldn’t make it in the end. Was comtemplating if i should head down alone…. not a fan to attend classes/ events alone but i guess, this is a good chance to learn to like going solo.
and i’m proud to say i did went alone afterall! and 1hr session was enough, it killed my thigh muscles. it’s very intensive and fast-paced. A salsa cum “turbojam” workout. And i’ve proven myself to be a 2-left-feet. right hand right leg. spasticcccccc.
sweating it out just aft 30mins. without going for the class, i would have given up at 30th min! so attending classes is good coz, forced motivated to carry on with the rest…
i can feel my muscleache now and i’m totally not ready for my 5km run this Sat. Running is such a longtime-no-hear word. Please save my legs. they’re so going to chui!!!!
on top of that, Hong cleared IPPT~! yayyyy can go feast~~~ =X
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